Monday, November 7, 2011

All I Want For Christmas is a Divorce

It appears we are going down the road of a battle for divorce.  It may not end up that way.  We'll see.  My attorney and I felt it best to actually file for divorce to put some pressure on JY and his attorney to sign the Decree we negotiated with a few changes that they asked for.  We could still come to an agreement before a trial.  I'm not sure if that will happen or not.  I have no idea what it's worth to him. 

I have no idea if JY is even being honest with his attorney.  He sent me an email from his employer that he's no longer in training and received a schedule that he wanted.  However, in the pleadings his attorney filed it states his income as the one for the schedule he did not want.  He may have gotten the information from his employer after he signed papers with his attorney.  But I'm not so sure.  

In the meantime, I signed up to take a parenting class next week which is ordered by the court.  Fortunately, I don't have to take it with JY.  That would be a nightmare to coordinate.  He has to take one, too.  He can figure it out on his own.  We have until the end of January to complete the requirement.  I didn't want to wait, since the holidays get so busy.  There's always a chance that we settle, but I didn't want to wait until then just in case we don't.

After the parenting class, the next day on my calendar is December 2nd at 9am.  That will be my first appearance with my attorney in front of the judge for an initial case management conference.  Let the fun begin!

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